Stories from teen son’s solo European adventure

What do teens spend their money on these days? The latest gadget? Rubber shoes? My son Paolo, who turned 18 last November, surprised all of us when he told the family recently that he would like to travel to Europe alone right after the holidays.

Paolo is a very strong-willed and persistent boy who will not stop until he gets what he wants. And so, when he told us about his travel plans, I replied that he would have to pay for the trip since I had just taken him and his sister Gabbie to Europe last summer.

Paolo agreed, saying that he had saved enough money and had received lots of cash last Christmas. His only request was that I give him some additional pocket money to augment his savings.

For several days he was on his laptop searching for the cheapest flights available. Lo and behold, he found a ticket for a flight to Amsterdam via Xiamen Airways for P40,000! Passengers also got a free transit visa and a free overnight stay at an airport hotel with complimentary breakfast.

The Xiamen Airways flight left Manila at 9 p.m. on Jan. 13 and arrived in Xiamen at 11:15 p.m. The free overnight stay is due to the fact that the layover is 13 hours. Best of all, Paolo had the hotel room all to himself!

The only downside to this leg of the trip was that Paolo didn’t have the local currency (yuan) on hand since the currency exchange service at the airport was closed by the time the plane landed. When he got to the hotel, they asked for a 50-yuan deposit and wouldn’t accept a credit card… only cash in local currency.

Fortunately, Paolo had made friends earlier with a Pinoy guy who works in the IT field and was en route to Sweden. This gentleman was kind and generous enough to lend Paolo the deposit and even gave him some loose change. It’s when you hear stories like this that you truly appreciate the kindness and bayanihan spirit of Pinoys.

The next morning, Paolo and the other passengers had breakfast together and then headed off to the airport for their 12:35 p.m. flight to Amsterdam. Paolo gushed as he described how new and clean the plane was, with its extensive entertainment selection and delicious food.

When he got to Amsterdam, my cousin Milen Aviles (who is based in